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Top 10 wedding day regrets (from real brides)

Your wedding day is supposed to be one of the best days of your life—and for many, it is! But in the whirlwind of planning, emotions, and expectations, some brides look back with a few “I wish I had…” thoughts.

We spoke to real brides and gathered the most common wedding day regrets. If you’re planning your big day, this is your chance to learn from those who’ve walked the aisle before you.

1. Not Hiring a Videographer

While photos are a must, many brides regret not capturing their day on film. A video brings back the movement, voices, music, and emotion in a way pictures can’t. More than one bride said, “I thought I wouldn’t watch it—but I would give anything to see my dad’s speech again.”

2. Not Eating (or Drinking Enough Water)

Between the nerves, mingling, and makeup touch-ups, eating becomes an afterthought. Brides often look back and realise they didn’t eat a proper meal all day—or hydrate. Pro tip: designate a bridesmaid to hand you snacks and sips throughout the day.

3. Letting Other People’s Opinions Win

From guest lists to dress choices, some brides admitted they compromised too much to keep others happy. “I didn’t even like my dress that much – I felt pressured to choose it based on my mums opinion,” one bride confessed. This is your day. Set boundaries and stay true to your vision.

4. Not Taking a Moment to Soak It In

“It flew by in a blur,” is a universal sentiment. Many wish they had taken a few minutes—just them and their partner—to breathe, look around, and take it all in. Steal a private moment if you can. It’s worth it.

5. Overpacking the Timeline

Trying to squeeze in too many traditions or events left some brides feeling rushed and overwhelmed. “We didn’t even get to dance!” one shared. Prioritise the moments that matter and leave breathing room in your schedule.

6. Worrying About the Little Things

From mismatched napkins to last-minute rain, small things can feel huge on the day. But almost every bride later realised: nobody noticed, and it didn’t matter. Focus on the joy, not the details.

7. Skipping a First Look

While some stick to tradition, many brides who didn’t do a first look wished they had. It’s a quiet, emotional moment with your partner that helps calm nerves—and gives you more time for photos, too.

8. Not Hiring a Day-Of Coordinator

Even if you planned everything yourself, the day-of can get chaotic. Many brides said they regretted not having a coordinator to handle logistics and unexpected hiccups. “I ended up troubleshooting with the venues staff when I should’ve been sipping champagne.”

9. Not Spending Enough Time with Guests

After months of planning and carefully curating the guest list, some brides realised they barely spoke to half the room. Try to visit tables, or consider doing a receiving line or post-dinner mingle to connect.

10. Not Wearing Comfortable Shoes

Yes, those heels are stunning—but blisters and aching feet are not the vibe. Many brides wish they’d brought a backup pair of comfy flats or sneakers for the reception. Comfort = happy dancing!

Final Thought:
Your wedding day won’t be 100% perfect—and that’s okay. The most beautiful weddings are the ones where love, laughter, and connection shine through. Plan thoughtfully, but leave room for the magic of the moment.